We hear about bullying in the media quite often. Your child or someone you know probably has been bullied. The effects of bullying can cause a child to ask "What is wrong with me?" How do I know this? My daughter was bullied in high school. It was a very difficult time. As I think about those days, I began to wonder about adults who bully. I came across a book called The Bully in Your Relationship: Stop Emotional Abuse and Get the Love You Deserve by Anne-Renee Testa, Ph.D. She provides valuable information that will help you identify the bullies in your life. I encourage you to pick up a copy of this book. We all need to become educated on this important subject that affects children and adults.