Never stop kissing a good morning kiss, holding hands, a good night kiss. Always mean what you say and say what you mean; kindly. Always maintain eye-to-eye contact. Read the soul. In your discussions avoid using the words, “Always and Never.”Unless, it is, Never stop kissing, Always be kinds. Touch skin to skin, hold hands. Consider not only what you say to your partner, but how the information is delivered; kindly. Don’t be afraid to say yes. Don’t be afraid to say no. Always greet the other with a touch of a kiss, when coming home. It doesn’t matter who reaches out first.Remember that the male and female are species and the genetic roles are different. Respect and value them. You are equal, however, you are different. Walk the journey together, not fused, yet, side by side. Nurture the other, one extra step. If you know their soul has been troubled in the past, help them honor their past. Listen with love. You have earned what you have learned. You have earned choice. You have learned insight, compassion, empathy and safety. Apply them. Bring them into the marriage with your love. Discuss the future yet live the present and the moment