“10 Phrases That Every Child Needs to Hear From the Adults in Their Lives”
What would happen if …your child embodied these 10 phrases? Imagine the difference it would make in your child’s life. I call these the 10 commitments, the words your child needs to hear from you:
You are lovable:
No matter what, you are lovable. You do not have to do anything or be anything more than what you are to be loved and to be lovable. In this moment I recognize you and love you just as you are.
Sometimes it hurts:
At moments life is painful and there is nothing you can do to make it any better. It just feels bad and I am here to be with you in these difficult moments.
You are safe:
Although I can’t protect you when things go wrong or you are scared, know that you have within you tremendous courage. Even when things feel dark and hopeless, take a deep breath and know that you are in this moment okay.
Let me try and understand:
I may not know what it is like to be you, I don’t know what happens in your heart and in your mind, I don’t know why you act the way that you do sometimes, so please help me understand. I am willing to listen and respect what you have to say.
I respect you:
You have different ideas, and see the world differently than I do. Sometimes we struggle to
meet eye to eye, but who you are as a person is good and kind and there are moments when I look at you and have such deep respect for the person that you are.
At times I forget to be patient, sometime I snap at you, at times I want things done quickly, and done “my way”. Please continue to teach me patience, remind me to be flexible, show me the gifts that you have in your heart about love and kindness. I can learn so much from you when I am willing to
slow down and just be with you.
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© 2012 Laura Dessauer, Creativity Queen LLC